- Self confidence to become happy without another person. The less you rely/need your partner, the better the relationship.
- Don’t demand from your partner to give you comfort, support, warmth. Find it in yourself.
- Don’t try to change your partner instead ask: Could you coach me and let me know when I fall back into unhealthy patterns?
- It’s better to love than needing to be loved back.
- To love someone is a gift. To be in love is a decision.